Starting over

     Yes you read the title correct, Starting over. Why would I write something like this you ask, I am writing this because there are people doing it every day, and there are lots of reasons to start over. I am going to show you a few examples of why so that you might understand and maybe figure out if its something that you want to do or not do...... 

     Starting over because you want to:  Ok so you have a business, organization, phone, relationship, they are a few reasons that you might want to start over. In life we start over because it is something that we need to do or we feel we need to do, you may start over in these areas because it makes you feel good or it may just make things easier to understand. Sometimes starting over allows you to see the things that you missed from just plain moving to fast, see sometimes you can get started with something and just get lost in it to the point you let some parts of that thing get out of control. So the question is once you find out something is wrong what do you do, you go through your file, memory, phonebook, or whatever it my be and you try to correct it and use your 20/20 hind site to help you not make the bad mistake that you made in the first place. 

    You start over because its a lot easier then letting things stay the same, some believe that change is good and  others think that things are best lift the way that they are. Well I think that change is good when not forced, anyone who has ever read the IChing will agree that change is good change helps you be unpredictable, if that is your goal. For some its a way to get comfortable with life and the people in and around it, to change often is a way to see the world in a different light and give you the balance you may need in that world because without change there is no growth.

    As adults we should always look for growth in everything we do, Growth should come out of ever book we read, every person we talk to and anyone we meet. It should always be apart of our lives, just like the changing of the days is apart of our life, as the weather changes and our ages change every year.

   Changing Because there is no other OPTION :  If you keep buying thing that you can not offered, you just might have to start over on your credit, and that could be a very serious. You might even be starting over because you tried to live life fast and you could not slow it down enough to get it together so it swallowed you whole and you just had enough so you cut ties to start a new day. Which is great if you really work at it, cause if you honestly work at it you could really grow and make things happen for yourself. If you don't work at it then you will forever be starting over, now the thing that you must remember about the fresh start is that you have to forget all of the things that you had before you got there, and let it all go so that you can truly start your growth process. I know your saying yea yea yea that sounds very easy to say, its not that easy though. Your right its the biggest challenge, you, would ever come across.    

   And the answer to your question is yes I have started over, and I mean started over a lot, and no it was not by choice every time, the last time was the last straw for me and the time was then, for me to change. I don't know it you have ever heard the say " CHANGE I MUST OR DIE I WILL" it is a true saying, a saying that means if you do not take the time to change you will be standing still and if your not moving your not growing, and growth is the key to life. So always remember change I must or die I will

They have a place for you

This is for a the young ones that think that they can get away without a stain on there shirt, I am here to let you know that YOU ARE WRONG!!!!!!! I say that because there is No Way out without a stain or going to that NEW JAIL that they have built for you....









They call this castle Grey skull accept it does not give you the power it stunts your growth, it slow your life and hurts your future, see they tell u young man get down for yours and don't let nobody take it from you, so you believe it and go for yours, what they do not tell you is that if you get knock if takes you a lot longer to come back from that, they also say that you will have made your mark on the world and it will forever remember your name, well I am here to inform you that there are other ways for a man to make his mark on the world. I say that because that kind of mark is a stain, its a stain that never comes off even when you try to make it right......






See there are other things that you can do to make your mark in the world. What you might ask, build a strong Business, invent something, become a senator or congressman, and change some laws, do something that makes the world say that man or woman made a difference that's all I'm saying

The day is a New day

Today is a New day, a day when every thing is public, a day when there is nothing that could go on in the world that could be secret, covered up maybe but secret I don't think so. See the world has gone techno and if you have a driod phone, iphone, ipod or anything with a camera on it you could youtube, or Facebook at will. see there is not alot wrong with that from were I stand but if you were what we call in the hood a Playa by nature then it does not leave you much room to do much, with out getting court up by your main woman. See these are the times that make it so you can not, stay off of a camera that will not, be posted to facebook.

Ok so you told your girl you were going to your mom's house to spend some time with her, which you probliy did intend on doing just to cover your tracks but you lift the crib early that day so you could dip off with the honey around the corner, in while you were out with her there were some teenage girls out taking pictures and having fun you didn't see them and, you really didn't pay them any mind just, because you were having fun. What you did not know was that the pictures were being uploaded straight to facebook and that you were in them... (Hold that thought)

Now you are out you have had a nice day and yes you made it over to your mom's house to see her and have dinner talk a little while and laugh a taste to, now you get home and you hug your girl tell her you love her staying true to the Playa's code, so a few weeks go by and you doing your thing having a ball laughing feeling good cause you have your main girl and your Mistress on the side and things are going very well so you think.... llc

Now back to the teenage girls and Facebook. So your girls cuzzin is the friend of the girls taking the pictures in the park and and she is going through her girlfriends pictures laughing and having a real good time then she see's you in the background of a few of them with another women kissing hugging feeling and all of that good stuff  so now she's on the phone with her cuzzin putting you on Blast, and what makes it ever worse is that she Tags her cuzzin in the photo so that she can see it for herself so now she is heated, trying to figure out how to carry this with you and when this was because you had been doing everything right up to this point so now she is backtracking your steps, then the light bulb went off in her head the GPS on the Photo she lift clicks it and gets the Time date and location of where you were and reliezes it was the day you said you were going to see your mom, so she picks up the phone and starts with the questions and your mom was on point for you then she broke her down and told her to never ask her questions like that again or she would rip her a new one. So now she saying no that wasn't the day the GPS must be off, then she think thats the Night he gave me the Best I ever had no that can't be right then she looks at the pick again and says to herself " that's one slick as MF he got me real good" so now you are on your way into the house and you are feeling real good too, then here she comes with the 100 question wanting to know were you were and why you were in those picture, and why you felt you had to cheat on her in the first place. and your answer is simply I do not know what your talking about, then she shows you the pictures and you look at them like what whats wrong they are nice who are they, lmbo, then it hits you that you are in the pictures with the Mistress and try to get out of it to no eval......

This is something for all of the Playa's out there watch how you play th game cuz its always somebody out there watching....lmbo